Sex Basics:  The 10 Between-The-Sheets Basics You Need To Brush Up On according to Reddit … Ladies Do Y’all Agree?
1-Don’t Stress Out About The G-Spot
Not every woman can be turned on by the G-spot or Gräfenberg Spot, so take the time to ask her what she likes and search for her body’s hotspots. Wherever they are, discovering them will earn you some serious points.
2-If You Like It Rough, Make Sure You’re Sweet Afterward
There’s nothing wrong with a little roughness if it’s consensual. Many women freely admit that they enjoy being slapped and, occasionally, even degraded a little during sex. But you should never, ever take it too far. When it’s all over, make sure you pay attention to her immediate needs, which will likely mean some snuggling and cuddling. She will thank you for it.
3-Keep Her Whole Body In Mind
If you’ve worked her neck for a while, move down to her breasts. And you may not want to focus too heavily on her clitoris, where overstimulation can sometimes prove unpleasant. So keep things varied. No woman dreams of a predictable, inattentive lover.
4-Her Clitoris Is Not A Scratch-And-Win Ticket
Many men think they need to rub relentlessly in order to make their partner climax. WRONG! The clitoris is extremely sensitive, so too much force can actually prove painful. You’ll want to approach it carefully — and always with neatly cut nails!
5-No One Likes A Jackhammer
Rather than simply thrusting away from beginning to end, you’ll want to vary your speed throughout sex. Gauge your partner’s response and let it inform your movements. If she asks you to go harder, oblige. But if the moment calls for it, go slowly. Sensitize yourself to her needs. You’ll last longer, and you’ll both be happier for it.
6-Use Your Digits Wisely
Some guys get overeager and confuse their fingers for penises. As a result, they finger their partners with a vigor normally reserved for sex. All this proves is that they have NO idea what a woman wants.
You should aim for a more measured approach, taking care to acclimate her to the feel of your fingers as you gradually insert more of them. There’s room for some intensity, some.
7-Just Licking Her Does Not Excellent Cunnilingus Make
Ignore what porn teaches you, NO fast crazy tongue action.
You’ll want your face nice and close to her vagina. You gotta get all up in that stuff. It will feel much better for her, and likely far more erotic for you.
8-It’s Not All About The Orgasm
When guys approach sex with a laser focus on the all-important orgasm, they generally lose sight of the path to the climactic moment. They wind up pressuring themselves — and their partners — to hit the proverbial finish line as quickly as possible. Rather than rush it, why not enjoy the experience as a whole?
You’ll prolong your pleasure, and your partner will feel like she’s with a guy who actually knows what he’s doing. The conclusion, though delayed, will be a lot more satisfying for everyone involved.
9-Silence Is Not Golden
It risks alienating your partner by leaving her to wonder if she’s actually pleasuring you. There’s no need to exaggerate your feelings — leave the heavy moans and contorted facial expressions to the guys in porn — but you can let your partner know you’re enjoying her company in a genuine way.
10-Foreplay Is More Than A Means To An End
A well-paced build-up — the make-out, the undressing, the reciprocal oral sex — will mean a more fulfilling encounter and, more importantly, a standing invitation for more.
GUYS, are you guilty of any of these above??