Yesterday I told you about five things guys do that scare women away. So today the tables are turned. Here’s a list of the five things WOMEN do that scare GUYS away . . .
#1.) YOU’RE TOO GIVING. You could argue that women have a biological tendency to be nurturing. But when it comes to relationships, that can make them WAY too giving. And it becomes a problem if they hold it against their man.
–So if you enjoy being a giving person, then by all means, keep it up. But don’t use it as a weapon to make a guy feel guilty or obligated. Do nice things because you WANT to . . . and don’t forget to be a little selfish too.
#2.) YOU DON’T THINK YOU’RE HOT. You’ve probably heard it a thousand times, but it’s true: Poor self-esteem can damage your sex life. If you don’t FEEL sexy, you’re not going to be as interested in having sex.
–So stop pointing out your flaws to your guy, and start incorporating a couple changes in the bedroom. Like, even if you really don’t want the lights on, start off slowly by lighting a few candles instead.
#3.) YOU OVER-COMMUNICATE. With Facebook, Twitter, instant messaging, email, and texting, it’s easy to communicate CONSTANTLY. But that doesn’t mean you should do it. If you do, it takes away all the mystery, and can lead to boredom.
#4.) YOU AIR ALL YOUR FRUSTRATIONS TO YOUR FRIENDS. Venting to your girlfriends every once in a while is fine. But constantly telling your friends about every single one of your complaints can wreck havoc on your relationship.
–Since your friends want to support YOU, they’ll usually side with you, and everyone will come away thinking your guy is constantly in the wrong. So vent about the big things, but remember to tell them about the nice things he does too.
#5.) YOU CONFUSE HOPES WITH REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS. Have you ever fantasized about your boyfriend doing something special . . . like throwing you a surprise birthday party . . . and then been disappointed when it didn’t happen?
Fellas… do you have any turn offs to add to my list? Â Let’s hear them!
Ladies… what are the biggest reasons why we act the way we do sometimes that may be considered ‘turn-offs’? Perhaps the guys can hear them and understand the reasons for our madness lol
