Guys, if you have a hard time keeping a woman around for more than a few dates, you might be making one of these five mistakes that scare women away.
#1.) TALKING ABOUT YOURSELF TOO MUCH. Okay we get it, you almost got a scholarship to BYU for football and you were also the fastest guy at your school AND you date a lot of pretty girls. STOP! Just be real. Â Talk about real things and MAYBE ask your date about her interests and family and dreams. Â You know, honestly, as you are bragging about all that stuff, the girl in her head, is thinking, every guy tells me this bullshit.
#2.) BEING TOO FOCUSED ON SEX. She already KNOWS you want to do her. You talking about it or getting pushy ain’t gonna make it happen….it’s just gonna turn her off.
#3.) BEING POSSESSIVE TOO SOON. Don’t get jealous when she wants to do stuff without you or spends more time with her girlfriends than you. And if you DO get jealous, at least ACT like you know she’s entitled to have her own life.
#4.) BEING CHEAP. This is such a huge turn off. We get that you worked hard for your money, but at least every third date or so, offer to pay for the meal. It shows that you have the mindset of being a provider. I mean, don’t you want to have a family one day? Are you gonna make them each pay for their own plate too?
#5.) TALKING ABOUT EXES. No woman wants to hear about your ex. And it doesn’t matter whether you’re saying good things or bad things. Either way, your mind is on that, instead of so many interesting new things.
I know I said 5, but let me add another HUGE TURN OFF…. BEING A JERK
Even if someone is sweet to me, but a jerk to other people like a waiter, I don’t like it. Simply the intention to want to do for others, makes me want to do things for him.
Fellas, do you have any turn offs when it comes to women? I want to hear them.
Ladies, do you have any turn offs to add to my list? Please come back tomorrow. I’ll have the 5 most common things WOMEN do to turn off a man.
