Will You Have Sex With Your Significant Other When They’re Sick?

A free and confident stride means you have an awesome sex life, research says.

The fashion-inclined always tell you that life is one big runway. But whether or not the world is your catwalk, the way you strut your stuff on a daily basis can say a lot more than what you’re wearing.

According to a recent study, a woman’s walk reveals how many orgasms she has had. An energetic and free walk means a woman has been sexually fulfilled plenty of times; a stiff walk means she shows sexual restraint.

The study, which was conducted in Belgium and published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, involved a group of women who completed a questionnaire about their sexual behavior. The participants were then viewed from a distance while walking in public.

The researchers who analyzed the walks had no previous knowledge of the women’s sexual and orgasmic history. They found that women who had fluid, energetic walks (free of “flaccid and locked” muscles) had more orgasms.

Unsurprisingly, the study also found that women who had reached sexual climax more often also had more confidence, and high self-esteem very easily translates to a sassy strut. Source.

79% of Men Say They’d Be Willing to Lie to Have Sex

Amber Madison is an author who traveled the country, surveying more than 1,000 men for her book “Are All Guys A-Holes?” Here are some of her findings . . .

–44% of men say they’d take a girl on a few dates, text her frequently, and fake an interest in her . . . just to have sex.
–35% of men would take it further, and actually lie about how much commitment they’re willing to offer in order to get sex.
-Added up, that means 79% of guys are willing to lie to have sex.
–8% of the men surveyed said they had no interest in a long-term relationship or even a short-term one, and just wanted sex.
-And 0.8% said they NEVER plan to get into a relationship.
-Men ranked humor, intelligence, and niceness ahead of looks.
–50% said a woman asking them out is a turn-on, and only 5% said it’s a turn-off.
–67% say they like when a woman contacts them between dates and doesn’t wait for them to initiate contact.

Would or Have YOU lied to have sex?  Tell me the truth! I promise I won’t judge…we’re all human and we all make mistakes. That’s life…to experience life and learn from our experiences… C’mon IMYAGirl!! Post your stories below!!

Women think guys are morons when it comes to most female needs.  Especially sex.  Meanwhile, guys act like they know everything.  So who’s right?  Well, let’s see what you guys really know.

–Here are three myths about women and sex that most guys believe . . .

MYTH #1.)  THE LONGER A GUY LASTS, THE BETTER THE SEX IS. Under five minutes isn’t really long enough.  Unless you’re going for a quickie in some exotic place.  But pushing half an hour is too long for most women.

–It’s okay every now and then, but if women had to choose between one or the other, they’d actually opt OUT of the super-long romp.  Shoot for 15 to 30 minutes, guys.  But don’t worry if you can’t last that long.  It’s probably a bigger deal to YOU than to her.

MYTH #2.)  IF SHE DOESN’T FINISH, THE SEX WAS BAD. A lot of women CAN’T be fully satisfied during sex, and it’s no one’s fault.  But most CAN be satisfied in other ways.  So stop worrying, and just make sure she gets hers in one way or another.

MYTH #3.)  MOST WOMEN DON’T LOOK AT PORNOGRAPHY. Guys definitely look at MORE, but that doesn’t mean women ignore it completely.  In fact one out of every three people who visits an adult website is a woman.

–Guys don’t usually talk about their online habits, and neither do women.  So don’t assume anything.

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Here’s a True/False article I found inside Men’s Fitness about sex myths:

Men reach their sexual peak at 18, and women reach theirs at 28.

TRUE With regard to their supply of sexual hormones, at least. Testosterone peaks at age 18 in men; women’s estrogen hits its high point in their mid-20s. “But peak hormones don’t mean peak sexual performance,” says Marc Goldstein, M.D., a professor of reproductive medicine and urology at Cornell University’s Weill Medical College. So feel free to try for a personal best–at any age.

Semen is low-carb.

FALSE “Semen is mostly fruit sugar [fructose] and enzymes–not low-carb,” says Dr. Goldstein. Which finally explains why there’s no Oral Sex Diet.

Masturbation yields the strongest orgasm.

TRUE But it’s not a hard-and-fast rule, as it were. “It depends on the individual,” says Jon L. Pryor, M.D., a professor of urologic surgery at the University of Minnesota. “For some it does, but for others, there’s nothing that beats good ol’ intercourse.”

The average erection measures 8 inches.

FALSE Relax, Shorty. It’s closer to 6.

No penis is too large or too small for any vagina.

TRUE But perception still wins the game in the end. “I was once at a dinner meeting with seven other sex doctors–six men and one woman,” says Dr. Pryor. “The men all agreed that size doesn’t matter. The woman looked at us and said, ‘Think what you want. Size matters.’ We all left dejected.”

Oysters make you horny.

FALSE You make you horny. “There is no scientific evidence that oysters increase libido,” says Dr. Pryor. “But there may be a placebo effect, so if it works, great!”

Green M&Ms make you horny.

FALSE Unless they do. Then it’s true. Isn’t the mind wonderful?

Men think about sex every 7 seconds.

FALSE That number is tossed around a lot, but the truth is that only 23 percent of men claim to fantasize frequently. But maybe the rest are just too distracted to check the clock.

Cutting out broccoli will make your semen taste better.

TRUE Semen is naturally bitter, and eating broccoli and drinking coffee can make it worse. A ray of hope for the Oral Sex Diet!

Having sex before an important event–the big game, the critical presentation–can ruin your performance in the event.

FALSE Swiss researchers performed stress tests on people 2 and 10 hours after the subjects had had sex, and found that by 10 hours, the participants were fully recovered. There was only a small dip in performance 2 hours after sex.

Having sex in water (swimming pool, hot tub, shower) will kill sperm.

TRUE Some of your swimmers may die, but it isn’t an effective method of birth control, according to Dr. Pryor. Though a hot tub can overheat your testicles and kill sperm, there should be plenty left for the egg hunt.

You can become addicted to Web porn.

TRUE But the risk is low. Only 1 percent of all people who check out Internet porn will become addicted. If you’re sporting a ring, be careful: 38 percent of addicts are married.

The Most Common Person To Fantasize About During Sex…

. . . A Friend?

Don’t get jealous and start a preemptive DOMESTIC here . . . but the next time you’re having sex with someone, there’s a decent chance they’re not thinking about you . . . they’re fantasizing about a FRIEND.

–According to a new survey, when people are having relations, if they’re not thinking about the person they’re with . . . the most common person they’re fantasizing about is a GOOD FRIEND.

–37.3% of people have fantasized about a friend during sex, making that the number one answer.

–35% of people have fantasized about an acquaintance during sex.

–34% have fantasized about an ex. (–People could give more than one answer, which is why these add up to more than 100%.)

–31.7% have fantasized about a celebrity.

–And only 19% have fantasized about a co-worker.

–The good news here is that this doesn’t mean that the love of your life is planning to cheat on you with a friend, or an acquaintance, or an ex, or a celebrity.

–People are just inclined to fantasize about people they’re familiar with, because those are the first images that pop into their heads. But odds are, they’d never ACT on those fantasies.

Fantasizes are normal to have. No girl can get mad at a guy for having a fantasy. But, I feel like if you are in a relationship and you fantasize about another person all the time, it’s a form of cheating. I’d hate to be with someone that is always thinking of someone else when we are intimate.

Can you PLEASE be honest with me since ImYaGirl? If you are in a relationship right now, how often do you think of someone or something else while having sex with your partner? HONESTLY! I just want to know. I want a lot of comments so that I can see what the average is. BTW, I think couples should be able to share (maybe over drinks) their fantasies once in a while. It makes things hot and fun. Could you do that? Share the craziness in your mind with your girl?

Do You Prefer Sweet, Gentle Sex … Or Rough Sex?

According to a new survey, 40% of men and women only like sweet, gentle, sensual sex . . . and 8% of men and 5% of women only like ROUGH, ANGRY SEX. The rest of us like both, depending on our mood.

About one in 12 men and one in 20 women REALLY hate it when you gaze into their eyes during slow, romantic sex, your bodies and souls intertwined as one.

According to a new survey, 8% of men and 5% of women say they ONLY like sex when it’s ROUGH . . . they never like it sweet and gentle.

40% of both men and women are the opposite, and ONLY like sex when it’s sensual.

51% of men and 54% of women say they like both . . . it depends how they feel at the time.

Me personally? I like to be loved and taken care of for the most part.  However, sometimes I need you to show me you are in control…kind of rough…don’t break my leg.  I think I like it best with a girl named Molly. What?

How about you? Do you prefer sweet, gentle sex or rough sex???

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56% Of American Men Say They Would Change The Size Of Their Junk If They Could . . . And 1% Would Make It Smaller

We’ve got some more results for you from the AskMen Great Male Survey, and today, we’re focusing on SEXUAL SATISFACTION. The survey is based on responses from more than 100,000 men in the U.S., Canada, the U.K. and Australia.

#1.) What’s your biggest sexual fantasy? The top choice was a THREESOME, at 34%. It’s followed by back entrance sex at 19% . . . relations in public at 15% . . . and filming yourself having sex at 10%. The rest said their fantasy isn’t on that list.

#2.) Is it ever OK to pay for sex? 43% said no, never. 31% think it’s OK . . . but only if you’re going to get to do something CRAZY that no woman would ever do for free. 14% say it’s OK as a last resort, and 12% say it’s always OK.

#3.) Would you change the size of your manhood if you could? We’ll just look at the U.S. results here. 43% say no, their size is PERFECT. 31% would make it bigger to feel better about themselves, 25% would make it bigger to satisfy their partner more.

–And 1% of men in the U.S. say their junk is TOO BIG and they’d want to make it smaller.

–The results of the other countries line up pretty similarly . . . the only noticeable difference is in the U.K., where 2% of guys, or one out of every 50, think their package is TOO LARGE and needs to be shrunk.

#4.) Have you ever FAKED a climax? 70% of men have never lied about finishing. 16% have done it repeatedly, and 14% have done it once.

#5.) Would you be offended if a woman faked a climax with you? 51% would be offended that they couldn’t properly pleasure her . . . 32% would be offended that she was deceiving them . . . and 17% wouldn’t be offended at all.

#6.) Have you ever had a threesome? 63% of guys have not, but want one. 23% say no, and they don’t want one. 10% have lived the dream and had a three-way with two women . . . and 4% have had a DEVIL’S THREESOME with a woman and another guy.

#7.) Have you ever had relations with a co-worker? 52% have not, but would consider it. 20% say no, and they never would. 17% have dipped into the company ink once . . . and 11% say they’ve done it multiple times with multiple co-workers.

#8.) What breast size do you prefer? Almost half of men, 46%, say that a C-cup is the best. 13% like a B-cup, 16% want a D OR LARGER, and 1% just love the A-cups. 24% say that breast size doesn’t matter.

#9.) How many partners does it take for a woman to be considered sexually promiscuous? 41% of American guys say her 10th partner . . . 34% say her 20th . . . 12% say her 50th . . . 3% say her 100th . . . and 11% say NEVER.

–It’s different in the other three countries, which seem to be a little more liberal about women sleeping around. Only 32% of Australian and British men, and 37% of Canadians, think 10 partners is promiscuous . . . versus 41% of U.S. men.

I’d love it if you answered all of these questions below as well.  I want to know!

There is a surprisingly large amount of research out there that can help the curious determine just how normal or kinky they might be.  Here is what normal looks like according to The Stir:

You started having sex as a teenager: the average age for first sexual experiences is 17 years old for women and by age 20 for men, 75% of Americans have had unmarried sex.

You’re still having sex now: Over 90% of married women ages 30-39 years old have had sex in the past year. In fact, it isn’t until women are in their 70s that the majority (53%) of married women say they didn’t have sex in the last year. Hats off to the more than 40% of 70+ women still getting busy!

You didn’t wait for a ring on your finger to get frisky: 95% of Americans have had sex before marriage

You’re comfortable using a sex toy: Over 52% of women have used (and enjoyed!) a vibrator, either alone or with a partner.

You don’t always have a big finish: Only 29% of women (and 75% of men, lucky dogs) report that they always have an orgasm with their partner. Interestingly, your partner might not realize this as 85% of men say their partner had an orgasm at the most recent sexual event but only 64% women said that they did.

You’ve had more than one partner: According to the book Sex in America: A Definitive Survey, only 20% of men and 31% of women report only having one sexual partner. On the flip side, only 30% of women and 56% of men say they’ve had more than five partners.

You’ve gotten pregnant when you didn’t mean to: By the age of 45, more than half of women have had an unplanned pregnancy. One in three of those women will chose to have an abortion.

You’re not into S&M: “50 Shades” might be popular, but that doesn’t mean you’re looking for a Mr. Grey of your very own. Only 5-10% of Americans regularly engage in S&M.

You don’t think about sex everyday: While 54% of men report thinking about sex on a daily basis, only 19% of women report the same. Why do I suspect most of us are just too darn tired to being day dreaming about sexy times?

You’re faithful: According to the Kinsey Institute, 10-15% of women and 20-25% of men will cheat at least once during a marriage. Infidelity is commonly cited as the number one reason for divorce.

Oral sex is on the menu: The majority of women ages 20-49 were both on the giving and receiving end in the last year. Yay for equality!

You’ve looked at porn but aren’t buying it: Most women have seen porn but only 49% have downloaded sexual material and only 11% have paid for an X-rated movie in the past year.

So my question is… how ‘normal’ is your sex life?

Just a simple question I have for today…. Is it okay to leave the socks on during sex or is that a total turn-off?

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Would You Wanna Have Your Way With A Porn Star?

In a new survey, 40% of men say YES . Please help me understand this. I don’t get it. Why would you want to be with someone that has been with hundreds or thousands of men?  (I am not saying this to disrespect porn stars at all. I have respect for ALL people from all walks of life.  I just want to get some understanding here.  So please read what I’m saying in the most non-judgmental way.)  It seems to me that if a female porn star has been with a thousand men in a short period of time, most of them being well-endowed, she would hardly notice you were there. Have you ever heard of the term, “having sex with her was like throwing a hot dog down a hallway”?

I thought one of the big things that turned men on was knowing that they can get a girl there. With these girls, you just aren’t going to make that happen. You are basically asking for a girl that has A LOT of miles. And if you were able to somehow get her there, you wouldn’t know it because she’s an actress. Or is that the allure? Being with someone that is screaming and acting like she’s so into it. It just seems like a big lie. I’m not putting these girls down or hating…I just wanna know why guys wanna be with them so bad? Lemme know…IMYAGIRL!