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How Do I Get My Ex Back?


Dear Natasha,

How do I get my ex-girlfriend back? I was a bad boyfriend that took her for granted when she was so caring towards me. Is it possible to get her attracted in me again?

She said that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship for the time being because it’s stressful.

After she broke up with me around Valentines Day, she messaged me constantly. I decided to have no contact with her. I blocked her on FB to give myself time to heal and realize the mistakes I made in the relationship. After I added her back on Facebook, she started interacting with me by sharing articles and stuff like that.

On the 1st of April (talk about bad timing), I initiated contact with her by texting her something innocuous, asking her about her puppy I used to play with constantly. I didn’t get a reply. After an hour, I panicked and “terrorized her” with a bunch of other texts, like telling her what movies I’ve watched. I realized that I acted very needy and the texting was a huge mistake. She eventually replied, but it was very neutral.

A week later, I asked to talk to her through the phone. We talked. She said that she still has feelings for me, but she is not in love with me anymore. I asked her whether or not she still wants to be friends with me and she replied, “It’s up to you, I’m okay if you want or don’t wanna be my friend at all.”

We’ve been chatting fine now with a few laughs here and there.

I’m a changed person now and feel that I owe her so much when I think about how well she treated and sacrificed for me when we were together. I want to have another chance to make things right and make her feel happy in a relationship.

Should I get her back? Should I even want her back? If so, what should I do to re attract her again. My friends suggested that I move on until she changes her mind about relationships. But what do you think? To be honest, I still sometimes see myself spending the rest of my life with her, and I also think that the reason why she is upset and phobic towards relationships is because I was a bad boyfriend. But I realized my mistakes and am more than ready to change for the better. However, I’m not sure how she’d receive the message I’m trying to convey. But one thing’s certain, I am totally sincere about this.

I gladly appreciate a female perspective on my current situation.

Jason

 

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Jason,

Thank your for your letter. I think my response is going to sting a bit, but it is the truth. And once you realize the truth, you can then move forward in a positive manner.

The truth is…it is over. You CAN NOT get her to be attracted to you again.

Every woman is pretty much the same and so is ALMOST every man. Every woman that falls in love with a man will put up with a lot of shit. She hopes and hopes and hopes that he will be the romantic, caring , kind and attentive person that she dreamed of. ALMOST every man, at some point in his life, will act like an ass on occasion (sometimes more) and take his girl for granted. She will get hurt and she’ll cry and then….the guy will do it again. She will get hurt and cry and then….the guy will do it again. Each time this happens, she wipes away the tears and moves on physically, but inside she has been scared. Over time these scars add up to ONE BIG HURT that she CAN’T overcome….then….IT’S OVER.

If you look back there are many chances that you could have made a change. She would have been able to move on with the scars, but when it’s over, it’s over.

This is usually when the man is now willing to change….after she has lost it. Here is what EVERY SINGLE GUY DOES after she has made THE FINAL break up.
Step 1: Be a jerk or a tough guy and show that he doesn’t need her.
Step 2: Apologize and say something extreme like, “You are the one I want to spend my life with….I want to marry you now.”
Step 3: Get super angry because things are not going his way.
Step 4: Cry to her.
Step 5: Ask to be her friend, while hoping deep down to win her over.
Step 6: Try to make her jealous by working out or showing her pics of him w another hot girl (this one makes girls laugh…sorry)
Step 7: Sit in a pattern of denial about things, when deep down he knows it’s over.
Then repeat a few of those steps in any order.

When she said you guys can be friends…that’s it…that is all she wants….when she sees you trying to get things back or when you ask if she is seeing anyone new…it just pushes her further away.

The truth is, she is not afraid of relationships. She is just done with you. In fact, the likelihood that some other guy was nice to her, while you took her for granted or treated her poorly is EXTREMELY HIGH! I’m not saying that girls cheat while you are being a shitty boyfriend. I’m saying as they start to fall out of love, they see another guy like a co-worker, friend or classmate that is sweet and realize, “Wow, there truly is something better out there for me.” Sometimes they end up with that person. Most of the time, it’s with someone else. BUT, they are gonna get with someone relatively quick.

See, here’s the thing about girls and their pain….they hurt a lot when you go overboard. I don’t mean a simple argument, because we all have those. I mean when you are a total jerk, they really really hurt. Even though you apologize, the hurt stays with them for a while. But they hold out hope for the relationship to work. She will go through break ups and apologies, and nights of being yelled at and and treated like shit, and saying, “I’m okay, everything is fine.” Then one day, after she has been hurt for the final time, and after someone else shows her that she deserves better, BAM- she loses it….IN AN INSTANT. And she can’t get it back. With enough strength and encouragement from her friends, she leaves. Now take a guess at who’s turn it is to hurt? That’s right, the guy. You didn’t really hurt during all those fights. Now you will. And what really troubles men, while they are hurting, is when they see how fast the girl gets with the next guy.

If you are wondering, “How can a woman move on to a man only 2, 3 or 5 months after we broke up?” Because they have already been processing all of the pain.

In all of my experience from talking with guys and girls and going through my own bullshit…I have also learned one other thing….although women can move on relatively quick, it’s the guys that can’t. They will stay in denial and or pain for years. Even if they get with another woman, they will think of the one that walked away.

I should point out that, yes, some girls will give it another try after they have lost it, but they don’t really want to. That just get tired of the crying and begging. But are they REALLY in love with the guy anymore? No.

I should also point out that there are a very small number of guys that will not be in pain when the girl leaves….that’s because they never truly loved her. The bottom line is, when love is abused…it hurts!!! And both have to go through it one way or another!!

Jason, now that you know the truth, you should do 2 things. 1) Accept it and move on. I’m serious. It’s over. You know it’s over too. If it wasn’t over she would be talking with you about how you are going to work this out together. Accept it and move on, so that you can heal. It’s going to be a long time, but in time, you will be okay. If you keep reaching out to her, it’s like picking off a scab. Then you have to start over. Stop all the talk about friendship. Although she would be fine with being friends, that’s all she’ll ever want, but you need to get through the pain of losing someone. And it always hurts worse when you know you fucked up.

2) Don’t fuck up next time. Okay? Learn from this relationship!! Don’t take the next girl for granted. When you are about to ignore her for 2 days or when you are about to scream something hurtful to her or when you are about to take her for granted….STOP…..ask yourself if you want to be with this girl or not….because NOBODY KNOWS where the “I LOST IT point” is…but, it’s there inside of every woman.

IMYAGirl,

Natasha

 

 

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Break Up Now Or Later?


WATCH THE VIDEO above to hear Leo’s letter & mess of a situation!

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Dear Natasha,

I’m wondering if I should get married in 2 weeks.

The girl I’m supossed to marry is not the love of my life. I love her as a friend and I’ve let this whole thing go too far.

I have grown up with this girl since the 7th grade. I knew that she always had romantic feelings for me, but I never felt more for her. Two years ago when we were high on drugs she told me she loved me and wanted to marry me. I said let’s do it. Then 2 days later she acted like it was serious.

I then sat and thought, “Why not? She would be an amazing wife?”

I never stopped that train. It rolled strong and fast. Within no time, she told everyone. And now here we are getting married in 2 weeks.

I know I’m not going to stay with her, but the question is, do I break up now and embarrass her? She would have to un-invite 250 people and explain why I walked out. I know her well. That would absolutely devastate her. Or should I break up with her a few months into the marriage and explain my true feelings? She would also be pretty devastated over this as well, but it would allow her to slowly explain to the world, that it just didn’t work out.

I obviously need an answer now!

Leo

Leo,

Thank you for writing me and sharing your situation with all of us. There were a lot of harsh words thrown at you for allowing things to get this far with your friend. I think the one word I kept seeing was “pussy”. Ouch, that was a bit harsh.

However, everyone was right, you should have stopped that train to marriage a long time ago, if you weren’t in love. BUT, GUESS WHAT!? This doesn’t all fall on you. I blame your friend as well. She’s the one that got the train rolling. As your good friend AND being female, she knew the truth- the truth that you were not in love with her.

I wish this letter could be addressed to both of you. I’d first say to her, “Come on, you don’t ask someone to marry you while you are high. And if you do, you need to have conversations about it after you step back into reality. You don’t run full-speed into the world, making announcements that you are getting married. That’s the equivalent of your bank mistakenly adding $30,000 account and then you racing to every store to spend it. In both scenarios, you are ignoring the reality, that is going to come around and bite you in the ass!”

I believe she ran and told everyone that you guys were engaged to manipulate the situation. She clearly knew you would have a hard time hurting her feelings. In fact, she banked on it. It should be no surprise when you sit her down for a reality check.

My advice is, talk to her NOW. I believe it’s okay to say, “You KNOW we are just friends… you took a moment when we were high and ran with it… and then I allowed it to happen because I didn’t want to hurt your feelings.” Tell her that you take full responsibility for your part as well. Let her know you are both wrong for ignoring the fact that THERE NEVER WAS A BIG LOVE TO BASE an ENGAGEMENT OFF OF!

My other advice is in line with what some others have already said …for your part in this mess… offer her the option of canceling the wedding OR going through with it.. and telling people later it didn’t quite work, because we are, ‘more friends than anything.’

My advice to her, if she were reading this should be, “get married, enjoy the night, get through this stupid mistake together, stay friends and laugh bout it one day when you are old.”

Good luck to the both of you!

IMYAGirl,
Natasha

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Women Like A-holes?


Dear Natasha,

I need some help understanding WHY.

Not one of my relationships has seen any light of day past six months.

I have never disrespected a woman. I am not abusive verbally or physically. But they all end up leaving saying something like, “It’s not you, it’s me” or “I need to move on.”

They just move on to some guy that’s usually a total jerk. Then I’ll end up seeing them writing about all of their problems on Facebook. But they stay with that guy, even when the guy gets them pregnant and is hardly around.

Is it true that you ladies want to be with an asshole? If so, what about having a nice family. That’s what I can offer. I feel like I should have been dating in the 50’s where ladies wanted to find a good man, ya know?

Help me! I don’t want to date for 6 months and have it lead to nothing again. I want to build towards a future.

Johny D

 

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Dear Johny D,

I appreciate you sharing the letter. I’m sure it was tough to read comments about you, that you felt were mean-spirited. I think you have handled it all very very well.

I’d like to offer some advice that I hope will help! You know I love a good metaphor or analogy. In your case, things are not all bad, because you are IN THE RACE….actually several races!!! You have taken several laps on the track as well. BUT, in the end, you are not winning the race. So, we as your race team have to figure what the problem is!

Again, you are in the race…you are able to get into relationships. FORGET about people dogging your height that I noticed in a couple of comments. It is a non-factor! Think about it. What girl dates a guy for six months and wakes up on day 182 and says, “‘Shit, I just noticed how short you are Johny D! I’m taking my shit and getting the fuck outa here!” There is something else going on. And, it’s probably not the girl….it’s most likely you. Now, you said in one of your comments that you are not going change for anyone. Why not? What if it’s for the better? Let’s say you had a friend…..and that friend never brushed his teeth or didn’t like to shower before climbing in bed with a girl. If the result was, no girl wanted to kiss and cuddle with him, wouldn’t you, as a friend, recommend that he make a change? And if he said, ” No, I’m not changing for anyone” you’d probably say, “Okay then, stay your ass single!” Don’t come to me looking for advice, while also saying I’m not going to change for anyone!! LOL Trust me YOU WANT to know what’s causing you to crash and burn.

The only way you are going to find out what you are doing wrong, is to get it straight from the source! Right now, I can only GUESS as to what you are doing wrong to make girls lose interest. My GUESS is you are getting too clingy. You used the word “smitten”. You said you get too smitten, too fast. It MIGHT be more like, too smothering. Again, I don’t know. MY ADVICE? My advice is to ask these girls what improvements you could make. Be very careful about how you approach them…especially if they are in a new relationship now. Write the girls you have dated and say something like, ” Please don’t take this e-mail the wrong way. I promise I am not trying to re-connect with you romantically. I was just hoping that you could be very honest with me about how I come across in a relationship. I want you to be brutally honest. I want to know if I’m smothering or too weak or if I’m a bad listener…whatever it is, please let me know so that my next girlfriend will enjoy my company.” When they tell you….MAKE THE CHANGE!

I’m sorry, but I have to correct you on something. Those girls that you were in a relationship with that you claim wanted to be with an asshole, WERE NOT looking to be with an asshole. They just ended up with one. They wanted something different than what you had to offer. In fact they might have thought YOU were the asshole. I would call you an unknowing asshole. Here’s what I mean. One of my girlfriends met a guy. They hit of off. They started dating. About 5 months in, she realized, this guy would always dominate the conversation. If she started talking he would just take over and finish her thought. When they were in public, he did the same thing. When people would start to tell their story, he had to talk over them. He would talk and talk and talk and only ask a question so that he could be the expert on the next thing as well. She left him because she couldn’t take it. She never told the truth about why she was leaving. She said, “it’s not you….it’s me!”

NOTE TO GUYS: When a girl says it’s not you….IT IS!!

I guess she could have tried to tell the truth but he’d probably talk right over her, plus I think he was the type of guy that would say, “I’m not going to change for anybody.” That is what we call an unknowing asshole.

I want to say again that you are in good shape. You get girls interested in you. You are able to date them for a while. But, you have to get real with yourself. You are doing something that is annoying. If you can take that brutal honesty from me, go ask for the brutal honesty that will help,you be a more interesting guy to be with for many years!!

Hope this helps!!!
IMYAGirl,
Natasha

Here are some screen shots from Johny D throughout the week in response to comments on this situation on facebook.

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Is It Okay To Lie?


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Dear Natasha,

Do you think it is ok to lie about certain things when you are single and looking for perspective dates? As a kind of test, as long as you admit to them before things get serious?

For instance, if you are incredibly rich, is it ok to lie about it so that you don’t end up with a girl pretending to love you when in reality she wants you for your money? Or if you’re amazingly attractive (or amazingly unattractive) and dating online, do you think it’s ok to lie about your appearance so that the shallow people who only care about looks will get weeded out?

These are the kind of lies I mean, lies that are meant to help avoid shallow meaningless relationships, not just lying to be a dick. If you think lying is wrong, do you have any alternative advice to help avoid shallow gold diggers and the like?

Thanks for the advice, Corey

 

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Dear Corey,

Oh boy, here we go….people are going to say the advice I give out is contradictory.

Thus far, while giving my advice, I have been a huge preacher…and the gospel I preach is called truth! I’ve said right here in this feature that you need to be honest in relationships. I believe that lies and hiding the truth are a cancer that will eventually kill any relationship. However this is an exception…BECAUSE….tympani drum….it’s not yet a relationship!

If I met you online Corey, and you told me that you were broke….then on the third date when you realized you liked me, you revealed that you were not broke….and that you told me something different initially because you were concerned about meeting the wrong kind of person…I WOULD NOT BE MAD IN THE SLIGHTEST.

I look at it this way. If a stranger on the bus asked your address, you have a right to give him/ her the wrong one because you don’t know them. If a guy runs up to a girl outside a club as she is getting in get car and says, “what’s your phone number Gurl?” You have a right to give them a false one. Are these lies? Sure. But you are doing it to protect yourself from so many possibilities…not to be decieptful.

Now, THE MOMENT you realize you want to cultivate something with someone, DON’T LIE!!! I don’t believe in lying during the “dating with hopes for a relationship” phase and I DEFINITELY don’t believe in lying when you are in a relationship.

I know that a lot of people disagree with me by reading the opinions below, but I feel like it’s okay. I feel like you are a good person that has no idea who these people are and you just want to do a quick little check. Any one of these people could be THAT ONE that is trying to get with you for the wrong reasons. And if they are good enough at pretending, you could end up with a gold digger that done dug in all deep before you could even see it! Lol.

Good luck Corey. Be careful. Everyone else, it is NEVER my intent to be argumentative with you. We will just have different ways at looking at things sometimes, right?

If you have a question you’d like to share with me and the IMYAGIRL family… Send an email to advice@imyagirl.com

 

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She Wants To Move In


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Dear Natasha,

My question is my girlfriend that I have been dating for almost three years. I moved into her place after 4 months of dating her. About 5-6 months living together, it tuned into a nightmare. I basically became her maid. Our work hours are different. She works in the morning and I work at night. I got stuck doing everything around the house. Laundry, dishes, vacuum, making the bed, making dinner…. Yes Natasha, I did all of this everyday. She would come home and complain about how I made the bed or how I clean the house properly. Ultimately, this relationship ended up with me getting my own place. Now she wants to move into my place. She claims she will never do the things she did to me when I was living in her place.
What should I do?

Scott
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Scott, Scott, Scott,

I hate to say this but you have to take a good look at things.  Is this the girl that you want to marry?

USUALLY, things only get incredibly better or incredibly worse as you take steps. You are not alone. Many people take the first step of moving in with someone only to find out that the person they fell for is a bit of a nightmare to deal with in the new situation.  I think it’s because they feel they have some new secure ground to stand on.  They decide to start arguments or be the boss of everything as if it was their brother or sister from their childhood home.

I’m sure you know what I’m going to say next….the next step wil most likely get worse.  If your girlfriend was ready to treat you like her childhood brother or even worse act like your mother, if you marry her, you can multiply that by ten.  This is why I ALWAYS suggest to friends to move in with a guy before you even start talking about marriage.  You need to know what things are going to be like.

The good news is, if you had a pretty good experience living with someone because they are considerate, willing to share in chores, respectful in arguments (other than maybe one “fuck you”) they will be even more like that in a marriage.

If you are not that serious about this girl I would say stay in your own place…you don’t need the drama.  If you are serious about this girl and you are considering marriage you have some SERIOUS work to do first.  You have to tell her that you don’t want to be her child or roommate.  Tell her you need to think about it first because you are worried.  If she gets mad, that’s a bad SIGN.  If she understands and really wants to take a second chance at living together, give her another chance, but also give living together it some time before taking the next step.  MAYBE she will change.  If she goes right back to the bad habits, I’m not sure if this is the path you want to stay on.  50% of all marriages fail! because people refuse to look at ANY SIGNS. They either keep trudging forward or telling themselves that the next step, like marriage and kids is gonna MAKE IT ALL BETTER.

Hope this response helps Scott.  You know IMYAGIRL, respectfully,

Natasha

 

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I Struck Out…


Dear Natasha,

So I take my wife out on her birthday, and we at the club… She tells me to go and see if I still got it and try to pick up another girl. I got offended by it. Did I over react? I ended up trying, but I struck out. She tried to get a number and didn’t strike out. She got the number.  I felt like I could be replaced like nothing! What should I have done differently?

Your twitter friend,
Armando

 

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Armando,

I’ve read your letter a few times. Each time it has left me with the feeling that I need to help you see what might be going on.

Your whole focus was and still is on your inability to get a stranger’s number, while your wife got a number. Your ego got so hurt and you are so FOCUSED on the event that you might be blind to what REALLY happened that night. Now, I don’t know this for a FACT, but everything in me is telling me to open your eyes to the possibility that your wife had a different agenda.

On the surface, it seems like a fun idea…your wife says, “Hey babe, why don’t you go try and get a number to see if you still got it…then I’ll try it.” I hate to tell you this, Armando, but that’s a move that a lot of players and wanna-be swingers use. I think there is a strong chance that your wife wants to talk with other men or saw someone that night she was interested in. The only way she could have a conversation with the person or talk with other men was to first let you have a chance.

First, let’s deal with your ego being hurt. Let’s be real, getting a phone number for a guy is actually a difficult task. A girl is not going to give it to you just because you asked. You would first need to find a SINGLE lady, that is open to meeting someone. Then you would need to buy her a drink, make her laugh, and show her a damn god time on the dance floor. That process would take two hours. Unless she is easy or desperate, a girl only gives out a phone number when they are available and REALLY interested in a guy. Here you are, all down on yourself over something that most likely wasn’t going to happen.

Let’s get back to your wife. Why does she need to see if you still got it? Why does she need to check and see if she still has it???? Just in case??? When you are married and serious about your a monogamous commitment to one another, you don’t play with fire like that. Let’s say you DID get a number from a girl that night. The next week you would have her on your mind. Then you would be tempted to see just how far the thing could go. Same thing with your wife….her getting a connection with this guy only started something in motion.

Look, there are a few types of couples that will play this game sometimes. First are the swingers. They are out talking with people apart from each other KNOWING that there is likelihood this will lead to something. The next type of couple that does this is called the adventurous couple. They are the ones that think of something like this, but because they are so in love, they do it together. They will both try to approach a chick and see if the guy or both of them can get a girl’s number. The last type, my friend, is the broken couple. This is where one person is looking and the only way to seem like they aren’t doing anything is to make the other go first or make it seem like it’s all a game. So, which couple are you? You aren’t swingers. And you aren’t doing this as a team.

When I was younger, I had a boyfriend who pulled this EXACT same shit with me. He always had me do something first, so then he could say, ” okay, my turn, watch…this will be fun!” I believed him too. My friends tried to tell me what was going on, but I chose not to see it. Then when I finally decided to leave the relationship it all came out. He apologized for playing those games and admitted what was going on.

So, my advice? Keep an eye on this. If you do think it’s innocent and you want to send your wife alone to talk to men, just understand the danger involved. If you think it’s innocent and you like having fun like this, see how she feels about doing it together. You might even want to consider asking her to just be honest and ask, “Honey, do you wish you could have fun on the side sometimes?” Maybe she loves you, but desires to be with others. I don’t judge swingers…I just don’t like liars. If that is the case, that she wants to get some on the side, you will have to decide if you want to be in a “swinging” relationship.

Lastly, I’ll say again…stop worrying about not getting a phone number from a stranger while your wife got it so easy. Not only is making you lose sight of what’s important, it’s silly to compare the two. Any girl can get a guy’s number… Most guys at the club just wanna fuck…so 8 out of 10 will say “here!” Girls don’t give them up so easy, unless they are…easy.

I hope this helps.

IMYAGirl,

Natasha

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Yuck!


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There’s a story in the news right now about a girl who found a severed lizard head in her salad. Ugggg…it just got me to thinking about all the disgusting experiences I’ve had with food. I’m going to list just a few and then turn it over to you!

1) I took a bite into a salad and I pulled out a nasty, long piece of blonde hair out of my mouth. Note my hair was completely black at the time. When I told the manager there was a long hair in my salad, he said he would comp the salad for me. I was SO grossed out.

2) I was starving after a flight. I told my friend to stop at the first drive thru out of the airport. We ordered up. When we turned the corner to pick up the food from the window, a huge rat jumped in front of the car from behind the drive thru menu. Yuck!

3) The first evening after I moved to New York, I ate at a sushi restaurant. It was a nice little place…so I thought. After dinner, I went to the restroom. I opened the stall door. The entire wall was covered with roaches. They were crawling up and down the walls. It looked like a flowing fountain of roaches!

4) I went down to Long Beach to check out some motorcycles. A little burger joint was next door. I ordered a burger and fries. I went into the bathroom.  No water, no soap, no toilet paper… I came out and looked around to where they were cooking and preparing the food. No gloves. No area for washing hands. Dirt everywhere. I walked outside and saw a grade F sheet on the window! (In southern California, all the restaurants have a sheet in the window with a posted grade.) I decided to pull the meat out and give it to my dogs so the money I spent wouldn’t go to total waste. They took one sniff and turned their heads. They wouldn’t eat hamburger meat!!! What dog refuses hamburger meat???  You can read my yelp review about it here.

Do you feel like throwing up yet? Ugggg… Makes me sick just thinking of these situations. Has this ever happen to you? Have you ever found something really disgusting in your food or at a restaurant?

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How To Argue With A Woman


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Sex Myths Kids Believe


When you’re a kid, LONG before you figure out what sex is, you hear all KINDS of different rumors about it. Mainly from other kids. And you BELIEVE them . . . even though they’re all RIDICULOUS.

Here are the six most popular answers according to this article I read . . .

1. Green M&M’s make you horny.

2. You can’t get pregnant in a hot tub.

3. Mountain Dew reduces your sperm count and shrinks your testes.

4. You can get pregnant from a toilet seat.

5. Jumping up and down after sex stops you from getting pregnant.

 

What was the MOST ridiculous sex myth you believed as a kid?

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Sexiest Jobs For Men


According to a new survey, there are three types of jobs that really impress women: You can either be RUGGED and MANLY . . . make a lot of MONEY . . . or, best of all, FEED HER.

The survey had women rank the sexiest jobs for a man. Here are the top five . . .

1. Chef . . . 27% of women think it’s the sexiest job.

2. Doctor, 23%.

3. Lawyer, 15%.

4. Firefighter, 12%.

5. Farmer, 6%.

The survey also found the LEAST SEXY job is . . . being a POLITICIAN.

My question for you… aside from the adult industry, what job do you think has the most sex at work?  CEO’s? Waiters? Professors? Have you ever had sex at your workplace? Where do you work? 

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